I so admire Ina May Gaskin. In my view, her’s is a life dedicated to empowering women. I hope that mine is too. I believe that how babies come into the world matters. My own births were far from perfect. Things happen. But the thing that I took away is that every woman should feel as empowered as possible. Mothers should have as much information as possible.
In Laos where we work, women have very little information. If their birth is normal, they are certainly allowed to birth alone because birthing alone (or with the help of family) is the norm. But when warning signs turn up in pregnancy or the birth shows signs of complications, the women we work with have few resources to identify and act on these problems. And so, many women wait to long to seek help or help is too far away regardless. So women die and babies die.
It is our hope that by making a start: training nurses, giving birth kits, we are beginning the process of giving all women in the area of Laos where we work a chance at a safe, empowered birth. There is a long way to go until every mother has a trained nurse or midwife by her side. But I hope that I will see the day when that is possible.

I found this
I asked Mrs. Yad, who is taking care of her daugther Van, why it was necessary for her to lie over a bed of coals.
The fire must stay alight all the time until the mother has completed her recovery, at a date determined by her own mother. This is done because it is believed that the heat of the fire will heal the uterus and birth canal more quickly. ‘If a new mother doesn’t do this, she may develop backache and an aching waist,’ she explained.
During this time, Van will drink several litres of hot water every day, boiled in a cooking pot and containing herbs to ensure that she will produce enough milk to breastfeed her baby. She also has to shower three of four times a day, again using warm water with traditional herbs. This is the Lao way, and it is rigorously adhered to.






